varane mittekohastumuslik skeem, mille aluseks on eeldus, et vajadus ja soov emotsionaalse toe järele jääb vastamata
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Kolm peamist deprivatsiooni vormi on hoolitsuse puudus (tähelepanu, kiindumus, soojus, või koosolemine); empaatia puudus (mõistmine, kuulamine, eneseavamine, tunnete jagamine teistega); kaitstuse puudus (teistepoolne tugi, juhendamine ja suunamine).
Inimesed selle skeemiga räägivad oma lapsepõlvest tavaliselt kui tavalisest ja probleemitust, kuid tegelikkuses ei kogenud nad soojust ja armastavat hoolt, ja nad ei tundnud end kunagi tõeliselt armastatud, hoituna ja turvaliselt. Neil on keeruline saada aru ja tunnistada seda endale, kui teised inimesed hoolivad nendest.
the expectation that one’s desire for a normal degree of emotional support will not be adequately met by others
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The patient expects that others will never or not adequately meet his primary emotional needs (e.g. for support, nurturance, empathy, and protection). He feels isolated and lonely.
The three major forms of deprivation are: A. Deprivation of Nurturance: Absence of attention, affection, warmth, or companionship; B. Deprivation of Empathy: Absence of understanding, listening, self-disclosure, or mutual sharing of feelings from others. C. Deprivation of Protection: Absence of strength, direction, or guidance from others.
Patient with this schema typically refer to their childhood as a smooth and ok one, but they commonly did not experience much warmth or loving care, and did not feel truly safe, loved, or comforted. They seem somehow unable to perceive and acknowledge when others like them.
