eeldus, et kõik elu jooksul loodud tähtsad suhted katkevad ning sellest tulenev pidev mure hülgamise ees, the feeling that important relationships which they have formed will never last and thus they are constantly worried about being abandoned by others, The perceived instability or unreliability of those available for support and connection. Involves the sense that significant others will not be able to continue providing emotional support, connection, strength, or practical protection because they are emotionally unstable and unpredictable (e.g., have angry outbursts), unreliable, or present only erratically; because they will die imminently; or because they will abandon the individual in favor of someone better., The patient expects that significant others will eventually abandon him. Others are unreliable and unpredictable in their support and connection. When the patient feels abandoned he switches between feelings of anxiety, grief and anger.